Rebecca
The Eye of the Beholder...
The Eye of the Beholder is a famous Twilight Zone episode about a woman who is having plastic surgery.
Like beauty, sexuality is as varied as our own experiences, perceptions and influence - and for the eye of the beholder to claim.


Labiaplasty
It worries me that in some cases and if you read the stories of why someone would elect to have this surgery. I hope they explored many other avenue before doing this - because there are a number of alternatives for some of these cases to which they think surgery will correct - like enhancing their pleasure. Sex toys and other types of stimulation probably do a better job than chopping it back - ouch! Like breast surgery - this can get out of hand in respect to body image and accepting our own uniqueness; personally I am sick of seeing Dolly Parton sized breasts. I hope women understand that the images of porn pussy in the gloss magazines, which may be the inspiration of the surgery, are manipulated and changed with airbrushing, glue, lighting and other things to make the vulvas like as they do. It is sad that we find it difficult to accept our bodies for what they are and just go with it. I believe "image" especially in the type that cause arousal - is truly in the eye of the beholder.

I read a tribe post topic of pussy preference that support my feelings and I was enamored with some of the posts. Many like big, lush or fleshy labia - the undeniable sign of engorgement that equals arousal - is a pretty pussy image - to the masses.

So the message is "Ladies" men want a real pussy and really, really, really want the stuff those pics can't do - the experience of wet, messy, semi-hairless, hairless, your smell, your taste, what have you elements that make pussy a delicacy.

Top thing mentioned was it be a "healthy" pussy.
Hair and cleanliness rated second
it appeared anything else was trivial in most cases.

So if you are a lady - and you have a functional, healthy pussy, you are beautiful - be proud and stop fretting. Love yourself and accept it as a unique flower - an orchid is so many ways like a womans sex: all kinds of colors, textures, shades, shapes and configurations of the same parts are represented. It is the source of both life and pleasure, please love who you are and what you look like.

Love and hugs,
~Rebecca