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Interesting statistics about the porn industry
Internet Pornography Statistics
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Internet Pornography Statistics
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This is a little YouTube Vid that features For You Pleasure
If you are interested in joining this business as I have or hosting a party please contact me.
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If you are interested in joining this business as I have or hosting a party please contact me.
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The 25 Most Disturbing Sex Toys | Cracked.com
This is too funny - and there are like three toys on here I have in my catalog!!! I have one of them!! I bet you can't guess which it is?
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This is too funny - and there are like three toys on here I have in my catalog!!! I have one of them!! I bet you can't guess which it is?
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The 10 Most Terrifying Guides to Sex | Cracked.com
Oh my....
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Oh my....
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Hotlanta Firefox 3 Launch - Mozilla Party
I would so be here - if it wasn't 300+ miles away. Mozilla Firefox is a browser I use and highly recommend if you browse a lot of "adult" sites and recommend it still if you don't. Lots of nice features that work with Google - just makes posting to blogs, keeping up with feeds, remembering passwords and more incredible easy. You guys have a great time without me!!
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I would so be here - if it wasn't 300+ miles away. Mozilla Firefox is a browser I use and highly recommend if you browse a lot of "adult" sites and recommend it still if you don't. Lots of nice features that work with Google - just makes posting to blogs, keeping up with feeds, remembering passwords and more incredible easy. You guys have a great time without me!!
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Some toys I have in my collection - I scanned this image with a box that was painted black over the stuff I carefully tried to lay on the glass. Previous attempts would disturb the Ben Wa balls into a location that didn't do much for the composition. All in all I think it turned out pretty neat.
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When I hear of a new artist or band and I want to explore more of their music I go to Pandora... awesome little service for Music Loving People - and I am a lover of music!!
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Penis Size: What Women Think - Men's Health
I am in the sex toy business - and many times I am asked or a fear is brought up that a sex toy might be a replacement for the real deal. Along with this comes the issue of size. I thought this article really hit the "spot" - it's not always about size.
When I sell a toy - it's always never the king sized "dong" that you fellas and some ladies might think of - nope, it's the "more slender than large", a bit curved and colorful model you might not think of. Or it's a toy used to accentuate what's already there - like a cock-ring with a bullet attachment. Or it is a simple, quality lube or a great pillow.
Within this article, some of the comments or responses left revealed another element, "what about her size?" Hmmmm, yes - what about her size. Well, whatever the circumstances are - too deep, to loose, too shallow or too tight. It is another human element to our ever unique anatomies that makes us different. Fortunately for both his and her situation - there are solutions to explore. Exploring is fun - so even if you don't have a problem - you can still explore the possibilities. Here is my two hundred cents...
Incorporate toys into your sex play or sex lifestyle - try all kinds. While many people view toys negatively like as a "replacement" - they are quite the contrary. Toys do things the average penis or vagina cannot. Think about this when you are at one of my parties or look at my catalog and it becomes totally clear - see the design, hold it -(touch it, feel it) and you can understand the function or experience it can provide. Toys are an excellent extension to who we are and what kind of lovers we are and can be - like that musician with his guitar, a mechanic with tools, a writer with a pen, or a charmer with the mind. Toys are tools and props that we use at work and at play - so play with your toys!!
It is a hand thing - read my comments about Penn and Teller on Sugar Daddy post - Penn has these amazing hands - he keeps them well manicured. They aid him in his profession - a major part of his craft, like a musician, the necessary dexterity to play an instrument or slight of hand takes precision and practice. If you are not good at manual stimulation of your partner than you need to get more "hands-on" - practice and skill, which means investing in the time. Take time to learn the anatomy and understanding what feels good to you and your partner and why it does. I think we take our hands for granted - they are downplayed too much. I think the mixed messages (masturbation leads to blindness) about playing with ourselves or fondling our partner's naughty bits get in the way too much- which is sad. So much is felt when we feel our own body or touch another. I teach male a female "pleasure anatomy" at my venues and I give homework. Doing anatomy "homework" is fun - use a latex/non-latex medical type glove on your hand with lots of lube touch your self or your partner - try it solo - go ahead, just try it. Leave the lights on and use a mirror and pillows so you or both of you can look and ask questions about each nook, crannies, folds, spots and try get "into" the lesson. Don't forget about those notes and pictures I send home with you!
There is something said about the mouth - I think many of us can testify that oral sex is an exotic and effective way to thigh-shaking bliss. Yet, some of us find the deed less than desirable. Ladies and lads both - have issues with "going down" on their partners. Not a problem - really, it's quite common. Toys, barriers, and lubes can help - but creativity is better. Identify what it is you don't like about it. You gag, the smell, the texture, its taste, appearance - whatever it is figure it out and find something to make that negative into a positive. My tip to overcome and be a conissuer of pussy or dick is to develop an oral technique you both can enjoy. Use a sleeve and flavored lube while you give him head. Plastic-wrap or dental dams feel awesome on a primed, well lubed pussy. Talk dirty, be a good kisser, breathe and make sounds (yes, I know this sounds silly) - lip service comes in many forms and the more various ways it serves, the better.
The body/mind connection - One thing I learned in my sexual discoveries both in researching and personal discovery is the body/mind connection. Our brain is our most important and biggest part of our sexual functions. When we have incredible sex we produce chemicals that are otherwise dormant - unless we like sky dive or ride a rickshaw to work everyday. Helen Fisher explains this best (see below). Her talk on TED.com explains this mind/body thing and why we fall in love with or why we are sexually attracted to a person. Ultimately though - SIZE DOESN'T MATTER, making time to have sex and spend intimate moments with our partner does. Now get off the computer and go make love!
The irony is that men spend so much time thinking about their anatomy when they should be thinking about hers. "It's a man's knowledge of female anatomy and ability to stimulate a woman in all the right ways that determines whether or not we’re happy in bed," Nicole says.
And don’t forget foreplay. "Twenty minutes of erotic foreplay with a guy who has a penis the size of a Sharpie will be far hotter than 2 minutes of sloppy groping from a dude with a johnson the size of a flashlight," Beland says.
I am in the sex toy business - and many times I am asked or a fear is brought up that a sex toy might be a replacement for the real deal. Along with this comes the issue of size. I thought this article really hit the "spot" - it's not always about size.
When I sell a toy - it's always never the king sized "dong" that you fellas and some ladies might think of - nope, it's the "more slender than large", a bit curved and colorful model you might not think of. Or it's a toy used to accentuate what's already there - like a cock-ring with a bullet attachment. Or it is a simple, quality lube or a great pillow.
Within this article, some of the comments or responses left revealed another element, "what about her size?" Hmmmm, yes - what about her size. Well, whatever the circumstances are - too deep, to loose, too shallow or too tight. It is another human element to our ever unique anatomies that makes us different. Fortunately for both his and her situation - there are solutions to explore. Exploring is fun - so even if you don't have a problem - you can still explore the possibilities. Here is my two hundred cents...
Incorporate toys into your sex play or sex lifestyle - try all kinds. While many people view toys negatively like as a "replacement" - they are quite the contrary. Toys do things the average penis or vagina cannot. Think about this when you are at one of my parties or look at my catalog and it becomes totally clear - see the design, hold it -(touch it, feel it) and you can understand the function or experience it can provide. Toys are an excellent extension to who we are and what kind of lovers we are and can be - like that musician with his guitar, a mechanic with tools, a writer with a pen, or a charmer with the mind. Toys are tools and props that we use at work and at play - so play with your toys!!
It is a hand thing - read my comments about Penn and Teller on Sugar Daddy post - Penn has these amazing hands - he keeps them well manicured. They aid him in his profession - a major part of his craft, like a musician, the necessary dexterity to play an instrument or slight of hand takes precision and practice. If you are not good at manual stimulation of your partner than you need to get more "hands-on" - practice and skill, which means investing in the time. Take time to learn the anatomy and understanding what feels good to you and your partner and why it does. I think we take our hands for granted - they are downplayed too much. I think the mixed messages (masturbation leads to blindness) about playing with ourselves or fondling our partner's naughty bits get in the way too much- which is sad. So much is felt when we feel our own body or touch another. I teach male a female "pleasure anatomy" at my venues and I give homework. Doing anatomy "homework" is fun - use a latex/non-latex medical type glove on your hand with lots of lube touch your self or your partner - try it solo - go ahead, just try it. Leave the lights on and use a mirror and pillows so you or both of you can look and ask questions about each nook, crannies, folds, spots and try get "into" the lesson. Don't forget about those notes and pictures I send home with you!
There is something said about the mouth - I think many of us can testify that oral sex is an exotic and effective way to thigh-shaking bliss. Yet, some of us find the deed less than desirable. Ladies and lads both - have issues with "going down" on their partners. Not a problem - really, it's quite common. Toys, barriers, and lubes can help - but creativity is better. Identify what it is you don't like about it. You gag, the smell, the texture, its taste, appearance - whatever it is figure it out and find something to make that negative into a positive. My tip to overcome and be a conissuer of pussy or dick is to develop an oral technique you both can enjoy. Use a sleeve and flavored lube while you give him head. Plastic-wrap or dental dams feel awesome on a primed, well lubed pussy. Talk dirty, be a good kisser, breathe and make sounds (yes, I know this sounds silly) - lip service comes in many forms and the more various ways it serves, the better.
The body/mind connection - One thing I learned in my sexual discoveries both in researching and personal discovery is the body/mind connection. Our brain is our most important and biggest part of our sexual functions. When we have incredible sex we produce chemicals that are otherwise dormant - unless we like sky dive or ride a rickshaw to work everyday. Helen Fisher explains this best (see below). Her talk on TED.com explains this mind/body thing and why we fall in love with or why we are sexually attracted to a person. Ultimately though - SIZE DOESN'T MATTER, making time to have sex and spend intimate moments with our partner does. Now get off the computer and go make love!
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Jessica - FSU from College Candy wrote the following article (see end of post) ... there were 11 comments on her page and I am reassured too like the some of them that Older Men are indeed sexy for so many different reasons ... I know, I married one. Same goes with "nerd" types - which Regina Lynn, who I believe wrote about how sexy nerds are or maybe it was Violet Blue??? I'll blog it when I find it.
So my list of Sugar Daddy Material - would be and not necessarily in this order ...
The two of many Favs Jessica mentioned...
Penn Jillette - Momma, He's a Magic Man ... and he is tall and large (in size but more importantly, his stage-presence)- I loved the show Bullshit and of course Teller. A great illusionist, comedian and ... his hands. They are just amazing to me.
Bowie - totally comfortable in his skin and always done his own thing. Super attractive in his "Golden Years" - Bowie is mysterious, captivating and feeds the weird side of my "freak" imagination.
Harvey Keitel Born May 13, 1939 - I became a fan with him in Pulp Fiction and The Piano - in a tux he's sharp looking - undressed he's ... "Unlike many American male actors who either never appear nude in film or only do so once, Keitel has appeared in several films nude, including full frontal nudity." Wikipedia. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_Keitel
Now that's a man with confidence and has every reason to be - hehehe.
Sean Connery Born Aug 25, 1930 - James...Oh James.... (need I say more?)
Julian Dana William McMahon (born 27 July 1968)He's still a baby but definitely man-candy - the only reason I watch Nip/Tuck - he's such a man-whore.
Maynard James Keenan - born April 17, 1964 - another baby. a sexy man can do more than cook; he makes wine, sings is a artsy or theatrical-like performer and damn his voice is just so... makes me lost for words.
Philip David Charles Collins, born 30 January 1951 - not your average musician and is always being made fun of. Phil is and has always been a pretty cool dude and funny too. He is not the only drummer I am particularly fond of.
Patrick Hewes Stewart, born July 13, 1940 - Oh my gosh - the Star Trek fantasies I had with him and Jonathan Scott Frakes born August 19, 1952 - it's all that authority, I think.
My Husband - aka MICKEY MOUSE - (15 years my senior) he'd better be kickin' at 69 like Harvey (go ahead honey, if you read this, comment all the way - lol). He's a musician, a comedian (makes me laugh everyday) and my soul mate amongst the many other qualities he has - undeniably a fun-lovin' dude, he's the type that wouldn't get mad if I called him Harvey during sex. Oh no, instead, he would tell me, "flip over and get on all fours, Shakira".
I could dream up more Sugar Daddys, Sexy Seniors, or Baby boomer's. But we'd be here all day and if I kept thinking about what makes me hot for these fellas. I might never get a thing done!!! I will say, all in all - they just don't compare to the young stuff out there, but that's another post.
Read Jessica's picks here...
College Candy » Shopping for a Sugar Daddy
So my list of Sugar Daddy Material - would be and not necessarily in this order ...
The two of many Favs Jessica mentioned...
Penn Jillette - Momma, He's a Magic Man ... and he is tall and large (in size but more importantly, his stage-presence)- I loved the show Bullshit and of course Teller. A great illusionist, comedian and ... his hands. They are just amazing to me.
Bowie - totally comfortable in his skin and always done his own thing. Super attractive in his "Golden Years" - Bowie is mysterious, captivating and feeds the weird side of my "freak" imagination.
Harvey Keitel Born May 13, 1939 - I became a fan with him in Pulp Fiction and The Piano - in a tux he's sharp looking - undressed he's ... "Unlike many American male actors who either never appear nude in film or only do so once, Keitel has appeared in several films nude, including full frontal nudity." Wikipedia. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_Keitel
Now that's a man with confidence and has every reason to be - hehehe.
Sean Connery Born Aug 25, 1930 - James...Oh James.... (need I say more?)
Julian Dana William McMahon (born 27 July 1968)He's still a baby but definitely man-candy - the only reason I watch Nip/Tuck - he's such a man-whore.
Maynard James Keenan - born April 17, 1964 - another baby. a sexy man can do more than cook; he makes wine, sings is a artsy or theatrical-like performer and damn his voice is just so... makes me lost for words.
Philip David Charles Collins, born 30 January 1951 - not your average musician and is always being made fun of. Phil is and has always been a pretty cool dude and funny too. He is not the only drummer I am particularly fond of.
Patrick Hewes Stewart, born July 13, 1940 - Oh my gosh - the Star Trek fantasies I had with him and Jonathan Scott Frakes born August 19, 1952 - it's all that authority, I think.
My Husband - aka MICKEY MOUSE - (15 years my senior) he'd better be kickin' at 69 like Harvey (go ahead honey, if you read this, comment all the way - lol). He's a musician, a comedian (makes me laugh everyday) and my soul mate amongst the many other qualities he has - undeniably a fun-lovin' dude, he's the type that wouldn't get mad if I called him Harvey during sex. Oh no, instead, he would tell me, "flip over and get on all fours, Shakira".
I could dream up more Sugar Daddys, Sexy Seniors, or Baby boomer's. But we'd be here all day and if I kept thinking about what makes me hot for these fellas. I might never get a thing done!!! I will say, all in all - they just don't compare to the young stuff out there, but that's another post.
Read Jessica's picks here...
College Candy » Shopping for a Sugar Daddy
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After reading this, I realize how many people I know role play this way and more. The scenarios victim/hero is popular. Unfortunately, it also makes me think of the folks who role play on-line, too - like Second Life or other popular social media sites. And how they develop these virtual persona's relationships. It's both interesting and fascinating how we attempt to satisfy our personal needs - especially emotional ones like attention. Don't even get me going on multiple personalities. maria r, in the comment section of this article makes a good point ....
This makes me also think, the more familiar role play - getting into character, dress-up and lots of interesting and useful props, is a whole lot more fun to share and experience with your partner - and undeniably all about the sex? right?
My heart goes out to those who find themselves in the victim/hero roles. It's one more "complicated" thing that makes intimate relationships a challenge - but so worth it when it's all going right.
The Wrong Kind of Role Playing on Yahoo! Health
This makes me also think, the more familiar role play - getting into character, dress-up and lots of interesting and useful props, is a whole lot more fun to share and experience with your partner - and undeniably all about the sex? right?
My heart goes out to those who find themselves in the victim/hero roles. It's one more "complicated" thing that makes intimate relationships a challenge - but so worth it when it's all going right.
The Wrong Kind of Role Playing on Yahoo! Health
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