Ok so I have not been the good girl and keeping up with my blog or many other things lately – too much playing on my part. So I have lots to cover. The last month or so I have been totally inspired by the events that have been happening in my life.
Firstly, I need to address some important stuff I have been asked to post. So what follows is where you need to look – you know who you are, but feel free to check it all out. It’s a free for all…
For My Med Student Peeps - Anatomy Pictures of Pleasure Anatomy – email me @ beqie101(at)yahoo(dot)com. I have to give Ducky Doolittle credit for the pics, as an IBA with For Your Pleasure, Ducky made these available to us to use along with the workshop she did at the Museum of Sex in NYC. The anatomy files she shared at the event I have permission to use but not exploit – so e-mail me and there yours. Curious about the talk and other reviews – please she her YouTube profile “Duck – O – Vision here.
Missionary Mama – I met a beautiful, sexy friend at a party recently who asked me about the missionary position and that this is the only way she was able to achieve orgasm with her partner. Well, at the moment I had a few positions in mind – and shared one or two with her. However, I have more advice and inspiration to share with her and others who may find this useful.
For simplicity sake we will illustrate the missionary position as man on top – woman on bottom. The man supports his upper body with his arms. Penetration and effort is made by the man – allowing the woman to receive. This can be demanding for the “top” partner and limiting if you are on the “bottom”. Frontal contact is predominating with this position. In my opinion the key advantage and turn-on factor with the missionary is simply: the face-to-face and genital-to-genital contact. Simply because you can see each others expressions of cues and signals that things are going well or not, you can watch everything and you can kiss, stroke the face or scratch your nails down the back – if your into that. Lot’s of options if you’re the bottom person. I think it’s a great starter position for sex – the closeness and conveniences of being able to kiss and touch the genitals before penetration is a huge advantage and an excellent position for steamy, fast foreplay.
How to change it up or spice up the missionary? Maintain the front-to-front contact. And shift everything else. Think angle, height and surfaces. Think senses – facials, sounds, and think smells. Touch – the hair, breathe your partner in drink up the chemistry between you – pheromones, adrenaline, hormones are the biological signals or responses of pure lustfulness. Breath and sound – the hot breath on the skin or sound of a moan very near to the ear can be very erotic. Our facial expressions are complex – how we look is worth a thousand words. Faces in pure pleasure say or signal to us a whole wash of emotion; if we are seeing someone about to orgasm that makes our very own naughty bits tingle. These are the details that can make any sex act or position – a remarkable one.
Laying flat on a bed – try it with pillows or a ramp tucked up under your bottom. This lifts the pelvis up and shifts the angle of penetration. Switch top and bottom – trade, take turns… share the ride. Adjust your legs – wrap them around your partner or simply close them or spread them wide – each varies the thrust or penetration depth. Straddle your partner. Sit or stand up – a chair, the side of the bed, or against a wall – different surfaces accommodate and act as a support – so the strain isn’t always on the arms or legs all the time; sex outside the bed is sexy. “Change of attitude and latitude” really is all it takes to turn the missionary position into an incredible and satisfying experience.
What do you do to change up your missionary style? I want to know!
Take care guys and gals...
~Rebecca
www.foryourpleasure.net/Rebecca
Firstly, I need to address some important stuff I have been asked to post. So what follows is where you need to look – you know who you are, but feel free to check it all out. It’s a free for all…
For My Med Student Peeps - Anatomy Pictures of Pleasure Anatomy – email me @ beqie101(at)yahoo(dot)com. I have to give Ducky Doolittle credit for the pics, as an IBA with For Your Pleasure, Ducky made these available to us to use along with the workshop she did at the Museum of Sex in NYC. The anatomy files she shared at the event I have permission to use but not exploit – so e-mail me and there yours. Curious about the talk and other reviews – please she her YouTube profile “Duck – O – Vision here.
Missionary Mama – I met a beautiful, sexy friend at a party recently who asked me about the missionary position and that this is the only way she was able to achieve orgasm with her partner. Well, at the moment I had a few positions in mind – and shared one or two with her. However, I have more advice and inspiration to share with her and others who may find this useful.
For simplicity sake we will illustrate the missionary position as man on top – woman on bottom. The man supports his upper body with his arms. Penetration and effort is made by the man – allowing the woman to receive. This can be demanding for the “top” partner and limiting if you are on the “bottom”. Frontal contact is predominating with this position. In my opinion the key advantage and turn-on factor with the missionary is simply: the face-to-face and genital-to-genital contact. Simply because you can see each others expressions of cues and signals that things are going well or not, you can watch everything and you can kiss, stroke the face or scratch your nails down the back – if your into that. Lot’s of options if you’re the bottom person. I think it’s a great starter position for sex – the closeness and conveniences of being able to kiss and touch the genitals before penetration is a huge advantage and an excellent position for steamy, fast foreplay.
How to change it up or spice up the missionary? Maintain the front-to-front contact. And shift everything else. Think angle, height and surfaces. Think senses – facials, sounds, and think smells. Touch – the hair, breathe your partner in drink up the chemistry between you – pheromones, adrenaline, hormones are the biological signals or responses of pure lustfulness. Breath and sound – the hot breath on the skin or sound of a moan very near to the ear can be very erotic. Our facial expressions are complex – how we look is worth a thousand words. Faces in pure pleasure say or signal to us a whole wash of emotion; if we are seeing someone about to orgasm that makes our very own naughty bits tingle. These are the details that can make any sex act or position – a remarkable one.
Laying flat on a bed – try it with pillows or a ramp tucked up under your bottom. This lifts the pelvis up and shifts the angle of penetration. Switch top and bottom – trade, take turns… share the ride. Adjust your legs – wrap them around your partner or simply close them or spread them wide – each varies the thrust or penetration depth. Straddle your partner. Sit or stand up – a chair, the side of the bed, or against a wall – different surfaces accommodate and act as a support – so the strain isn’t always on the arms or legs all the time; sex outside the bed is sexy. “Change of attitude and latitude” really is all it takes to turn the missionary position into an incredible and satisfying experience.
What do you do to change up your missionary style? I want to know!
Take care guys and gals...
~Rebecca
www.foryourpleasure.net/Rebecca
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